stages of friendship

The Four Stages of Girlfriendship

May 8, 2017 Tracy Heins

Young girls share everything with their girlfriends, grown women, not so much. There are stages of friendship women go through. As young girls, friendships formed in algebra class or summer camp. We talked about boys, […]

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Should You End a Friendship?

December 9, 2016 Tracy Heins

Breaking up with a friend is hard. You have broken up with boyfriends in the past, but girlfriends? Maybe not so much. In fact, our girlfriends help us through boyfriend breakups. However, conflict arises in […]

how to get your man to talk more

How to Get Your Man to Talk More

December 6, 2016 Tracy Heins

“Honey, we need to talk,” I say. Those words from a woman’s mouth causes a man to drop the remote. “About what?” he asks. He blows out a sigh. “Honey, we are not dating anymore. […]

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Why Do Men Look at Other Women?

October 24, 2016 Tracy Heins

I love date nights…except when there is another woman present. On date nights we are able to hear each other talk and order off menus without cartoons. We remember the spouse sitting across from you […]

mysteries of men

The Mysteries of Men

February 1, 2016 Tracy Heins

Men claim to be simple. Men claim women are complicated. Yet, the unsolved mysteries of men challenge their claim of simplicity. For decades women have been stumped left asking, “why do men do what they […]

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My Husband is Having an Affair

March 14, 2014 Tracy Heins

My husband is having an affair. It started after his 40th birthday…typical, I know. “Where are you going?” I asked raising my eyebrows. “Out for a drive,” he answered.  His new interest in driving had […]